Sunday, 1 March 2015

How to understand us , women ?



Is it too hard for men to understand women? They said that women are complicated .


10 REASONS WHY WOMEN ARE SO COMPLICATED
Women are often labeled as ‘complicated’. It is often said that the mysteries of their heart are as deep
and unfathomable as the depths of an ocean. But what exactly make women so complicated?

Here’s a list of 10 reasons that may provide an explanation:

1. They experience a lot of biological changes Biologically, women undergo so many changes within a month. With the end of each menstrual cycle to the ovulation period and then again to the start of next menstrual cycle, a woman’s body experiences so many hormonal and biological changes that it
is bound to have an effect on them.  Under the effect of such hormones, they often behave differently, thus making their behavior ‘complicated’ and ‘complex’ to others.

2. They think with their heart A lot of complications come from the fact that women tend to ‘think’ with their hearts rather than with their minds. They tend to become emotional very fast. Emotions make women more complicated.

3. They are forever multi-tasking Women are often juggling so many personal and professional responsibilities. They are at many places at one time. They are performing the multiple roles of wife, mother, daughter, sister, professional and so on. This constant multi-tasking adds complexity to their behavior.
 
4. Women give a lot of priority to ‘trivial’ issues It’s in the nature of women to give priority to trivial issues. Little things matter a lot to them which may mean nothing to men. That’s why when they have a problem or an issue, often men find that it’s ‘nothing’ and they end up calling them as ‘complicated’.

5. Women can’t let go of past . The past keeps coming back to haunt them and interfere with their present and future, making their behavior complex to men who find it difficult to connect the past conflicts to the present escalations.

6. Women are forever comparing.Be it themselves or their spouses, they are forever comparing and
judging. This adds a lot of complex  their daily interactions and behavior.

7. Women are extremely self-critical .Believe it or not, but women are very self-critical. They are very harsh on themselves, from physical looks to emotional temperament. This makes them very difficult and complicated.

8. Women often make their world go round their boyfriend/husband/family .They give a lot of priority to
relationships and easily get hurt when others don’t respond in the same way.Little things can tick them off, thereby leaving the other person confused about what happened.

9. There’s never a right answer for them!If they ask men, “Am I looking fat?”and if he says no then the man is termed liar and if he says yes, then they give “Are you kidding me?”expression! These often display why women are complicated.

10. They expect a lot.Since women do a lot, they tend to expect a lot too. But often those expectations are not met, especially the ones concerning with emotional needs. This hurts them but they often expect that others should understand. So they don’t directly say what is wrong. The man is left
wondering what is wrong and ends up simply labeling women as ‘complicated’.

Every complication has a way around to make it simple, so is the case with women. Men should try to understand them, then every woman will seem a bit ‘less complicated’.




I'm a bookaholic

''Bookstore has become your candy shop'' -mom

Yeah . Its really true . I will always go to bookstore everytime i went to the town . And i will buy a lots off book . I rather save my money from buying a food for buy a book . And i'm not the type of person that will not read the book . Every time i bought i will read it because i really love to read.

Every time i read i will says to myself , ''drop the book and get stuff done!'' but then I laugh and turn the page to go on with my reading . HAHA , Im simply a book drunkard . For me happiness is a cup of coffee and a good book . Give me a book and i will not disturb anyone . :)

One more , i dont need a man who promises me the world , i just need someone who promises to buy me books and i will say he is a nice person .

As has been said by one writer , Rose Franken , she said that anyone can be passionate but it takes a real lovers to be silly . Yes , im one of them . The silly one . Im a bookaholic and i regret nothing because there are many benefit that i could have from reading book.

I'm always have a dream that i want one mini library at my home . And i hope when i have money , i want to open a bookstore and also library .








*Book lovers never go to bed alone . Bye :)

My first niece , Syakirah Nabila .

Hye . In this entry , i would like to share about my very first niece . She is my brother's daughter . Im really excited when my sister-in-law giving birth on 28 of November 2013 . Her name is Syakirah Nabila Binti Saiful Nizam .

My mom said that Syakirah really look alike me when i was a kid . Of course she would look like me because im the only one aunty that she has .

Hey dear , I promise that you will always be my favourite niece .







Niece , 
the first time i saw you,
i felt such love inside ,
for a pretty little baby girl.
who hardly ever cried.
My niece,my little princess ,
you totally rule my heart,
in the story of my life
you are the best part,
Your sweet smile
Bring happiness in my life
and joy that forever stays .

I just want you to know that you can be your mom's daughter but you will always be my best friend :)
And you know what ? Only an aunt can give hugs like a mother , can keep a secret like a sister and share a love like a friend , I will always be there for you my dear .




As your aunt , i will love you , guide you and spoil you .

Love you always dear .

bye :)





Family at UPSI .

Assalammualaikum and good evening ! :)

In this entry , i want to share with all of you about how my life goes at UPSI . I have a big family at UPSI . Let me introduce them one by one . :)


Have you ever heard this quote ''Friends are the flower in the garden of life'' ? Its mean that they colouring our life .
















They are part of my life . One day all of this moment gonna be a memory . I really hope that our relationship will never ever end because I love them damn much . May ALLAH bless our relationship .


Bye ! :)


Saturday, 28 February 2015

Hey dude ! I miss you .


    And , today I really miss you .
   
    Do you miss me like I do ?

    :)





Hey Mohd Khalid bin Atim , do you still remember our first date ? Do you still remember the time that we always spend together ? 

I wish we could go back to that time . HAHA . If and only if :)

Dude ,
I know it was my fault but i just want you to know , the truth is I stop talking to you not because I hate you but I thought that i was annoying you . And im just waiting for you to say that you miss me :)

But ,
I really miss our conversations . Everyday i will re-read our old conversations.I miss how we used to talk , every minutes of every days and how was i able to tell you everything .

I got to go ! But please remember that I miss you always .



Bye dear . :)


Friday, 13 February 2015

Coffee lovers ?





Hye , if you one of them , lets watch this video and read my entry . This entry special for all coffee lovers :)


I love the taste of coffee. I love that there are countless varieties of flavors and ways to make it–there’s always adventure involved in tasting a new flavor. The fact that coffee beans come from natural plants guarantees that coffee made from different geographical regions will have different flavors. I also love the smell. I enjoy it so much that I’ve actually caught myself salivating in anticipation of coffee when I smell it, like other people might do when they are excited and can smell a great meals.I know this might sound like an oxymoron, a relaxing caffeine-filled stimulant? For me, yes. I don’t drink coffee primarily because I want to be more awake or aware. Of course, those are positive side effects of the drink. However, I enjoy it more for the ritual and the taste. I drink coffee like some people may drink wine. I love sitting down, grabbing a book, and brewing up a cup of coffee. To me coffee has always been more about relaxing than it has about waking up and getting more energy. I enjoy it slowly. Sometimes so slowly that I have to throw a cup back into the microwave because it get’s cold.Starbucks is one of the 'must go place' when i went out to shopping mall . For me a good day start with a cup of coffee and also end with a cup of coffee at night.For me coffee is a 'drug' , a warm delicious drug . 




Give me coffee and book , then i will not disturb anyone and please dont disturb me . hahah

Okay that's all for this entry . See you again . Bye *drink coffee 






Thursday, 12 February 2015

I'm Johorean and I'm proud .

Assalammualaikum and hye :)

I dont know what to write so  i decide to tell all of you about Johor . I know many of you just don't like Johor but i don't even know why . Is it because of football ? haha , but i don't care because we cant force anyone to love or like something , right ?

First thing first , i want to share with all of you about the special food from Johor .

  • Laksa Johor 
         This coconut fish base noodle soup is popular in Johor, a southern state in Peninsular Malaysia and uses spaghetti instead of laksa noodles.

  • Mee Bandung
      Mee Bandung, is a traditional malay cuisine (noodle) which originated from Muar, Johor. The word ‘bandung‘ is not to be confused with Bandung, Indonesia as it actually has malay meaning, i.e  “mixed” or “pairs“. A check on the recipe, you will find that Mee Mandung consists of several ingredients that are mixed together. Hence the name “mee bandung” was given.I bet many Muarians will tell you that one of the best food ever created in this planet is the spicy and awesome Mee Bandung Muar. It kick starts at your mouth and goes straight into your head. It is simply extraordinary as each mouthful is rich and bursting with egg, beef and prawn flavor. There’s simply no stopping once you have started.It was freaky awesome food.


  • Nasi Ambeng
    


  • Soto

  • Kacang pool





I think i will stop here . I will continue in my next entry . Adios ! :)

al fatihah . Rest in peace , friend .

Assalammualaikum .

*Beep , beep* , whatsapp's notification . It is from K.A.M.I group .

''Pijie is gone . Al fatihah .''-eyra
''What?are you kidding?''-Luqman
''No , im not . Inner bleeding because of accident''-eyra

My tears drop after I read it . Im really shock because I just had a short conversation with him last month after a year lost contact .

I know him from facebook , batch 1993's group . We become more closer like siblings and crete one group named 'K.A.M.I' . There are so much memories we create together even only two times we met . We called him as pijie , he is really nice person . Positive thinker and make others happy be friend with him . He always advice us in that group . He act as our brother and we really love him .

I still remember first time we met during ta'aruf week which os orientation day at UIA . Only pijie and i got offered to entered UIA .So we met there . But we lost contact when both of us quit UIA because he get an offered to go to Jordan and me myself continued my studied at UPSI .

In the last chat , he said to me dont forget him even he did not contact us reguraly because hesaid we always in his prayer . Insyaallah pijie , we will always remember you . always .

Rest in peace brother . We will always love you bro :)


al fatihah .



Fried Ice cream .

Fuhh  ! Its so hot today . So I decided to have something that can me feel peace . After think about it , i made a decision to make an fried ice cream . It was so yummy and the way to make it was really simple .


Okay so lets read the step and start do it !

Ingredients :
bread
Ice cream
Oil

Steps :

1.prepare this things.
2.put the ice cream in the bread.
3.cut the bread according to the cup size.
4.put in the freezer.
5.fried it
6.eat !


So lets do it !

Monday, 26 January 2015

POEM !

poem , it is something that very interesting . For those who can't understand it for sure will say that poem is bored , make them sleepy and nonsence . Not everyone like the flowery sentence but I love it because for me it makes e think more about the meaning in that poem . Usually i read poem in malay and i have a lot of malay's poem books . But i also had read english poem such as the book entitled "Lullabies by Lang Leav'' . I found that book as very interesting . I really enjoy reading it .



One of my favorite poem in this book entitled 'When'

''When did you stop caring , he asked''.
''When did you start noticing , she replied''.

Even its short but it is very meaningful .


try to read that book , i'm really sure you will love it .

Sunday, 25 January 2015

FATHER

''Any man can be a father but it takes someone special to be Dad '' ,indeed ! . I really like this quote .

Today i want to share about father , yeah father :)

My dad is simply the greatest man i have ever known and im so proud to call him mine . He was really a nice person . Dad is someone who holds me when im cry,scolds me when I break the rules , shines with pride when i'm succeed and always has faith in me even when i'm failed . H e didn't tell me how to live , he lived and let me watch him do it .

my hero.




hey dad . thanks for being you.
you have taught me to never live life .
daddy ,
i may find my prince but you will always be my king .
You are my first love and i will always be your little girl .
:)




I want to share some video with all of you . Hope you enjoy watching it .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSfhgGGt_PU




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Now my father is not feeling well . My mom say he keep calling my name when he sleep . I know he miss me and for sure i miss him too . Dad ! please stay strong . I know you can . May Allah bless you always daddy :) 

Remember one thing , i will always love you .








Tuesday, 6 January 2015

moist steamed chocolate cake .

Asslammualaikum .

I just want to share with all of you about how to bake moist steamed chocolate cake . Its really simple . My friends always ask me to bake cake for them and bring it to UPSI. I'm really happy when they loved it .
So lets try to do it by your own .


Ingredients:

200 gram flour
100 gram cocoa powder
1 tsp baking powder
1 tsp baking soda
½ tsp salt
1 tsp pure vanilla extract
3 eggs
200 gram sugar
1 cup vegetable oil
1 cup condensed milk
1 cup hot water

Chocolate Topping:

200 ml whipping cream
350 gram dark chocolate – chopped / cocoa powder

1 tbsp butter


Methods :
1. Combine caster sugar, evaporated milk, vanilla extract or essense and butter in a saucepan.Stir over low heat until sugar is dissolved and butter is melted, turn off the fire and keep warm.
2. Add the beaten eggs into the slightly cold evaporated milk mixture and stir till well mix.
3. Sift the flour, cocoa powder, baking powder and baking soda into a large mixing bowl, then pour the eggs mixture over the flour and stir till well mix (cake batter should be runny - mine is like the batter for brownie)
4. Heat up the steamer.
5. Lined and greased a 8 or 9 inch round baking pan. (I used 8")
6. Pour the batter into the lined pan and place the pan into the steamer and cover the top of the pan loosely with a piece of aluminium foil.
7. Cover the steamer and steam over medium heat for 45 mins. (I steamed for nearly 55 mins, until skewer came out clean)
8. Cool the cake in pan before turning out for further decoration. 

For Frosting :
100g chocolate, chopped into small pieces
25g milk

Method :
1. Double boil the chocolate and milk until chocolate is melt.
2. Pour onto the cake and chill the cake.


:)